March 18, 2006

tough nut to crack

'it is absurd to divide people into good and bad. people are either charming or tedious'
-- oscar wilde, lady windermere's fan, 1892, act 1

i am quikflik - a sagitterius. a 31 year old young woman (yes you can read immature if you like) - living in auckland, new zealand.
i like to think - a lot. and i like to share my thoughts and feelings on the internet. i like to pretend that i can say things out here because no one i know will ever read them. i also like to pretend that people wont really care what i say.
and so far its working out for me just fine thank you very much.
wow that feels like i am saying "hi, i am quikflik and i am a drug addict"

one of my pet peeves is ex boyfriends -
who never grow up (or out, or longer!)
this is something that i have been wanting to get off my chest since i saw him for the first time in 3 years. i guess the hassle of liking em young is that they will always seem immature. the thing that gets me most about my ex(s) is that most of them repulse me now (what the hell was I thinking?)
in considering this - here are some things that i really wish i had said to him :
- i've smoked fatter joints than that
- why dont we just cuddle
- will it squeak if I squeeze it ?
- can I be honest with you ? (yes at times even i hold my tongue a little)
- why dont we skip straight to the cigarettes
- are you cold ?
- if you get me drunk first ... (thats just an invitation really aint it ?)

and the other pet peeve - i'm sure a lot of auckland girls will understand this one;
people (mainly men) who honk their horns at me while i am putting on my makeup in the car in the morning. i've lived in auckland for nearly 7 years now - i can put mascara on in 70 kph rush hour traffic !

however, i am not, and will not be referred to as a jafa.
i am what we like to call a wolta. a wellingtonian ON LOAN to auckland.